Ooops! It appears as if I forgot I was writing a blog...
Did I do thaaat?
Yes, yes I did. Sorry Peeoples!
OK, Manners Mondays.
I saw this little phrase online, and just thought it was cute:
This is so true. I try to get my children to realize this. I think it just goes back to "First Impressions". What are people seeing you like for the first time? Rude? Disrespectful? OR Polite? Friendly?
Most people react very well towards good manners. Some don't. "They" don't deserve my time here. Use the manners!
So, here's the doozie today...this one is for the men:
HOLD THE DOOR OPEN FOR YOUR WOMEN!
Did she just say that? Oh yes she did!
(before we continue here, I have to say, I have not looked anything up and I should have. So, this will not be a anything more than my own view...I do not need nasty messages from any of you :P )
I love the door being opened for me. Love it. My dad is a big "door opener". To this day, he opens the door for all his Ladies. I like my girlies being treated like that. Is this everything to look for in a man? Noooo. But, it won't hurt.
When Mr. Man and I started dating, he opened the door for me. Walking into buildings, getting in the car...that did not last long. NOW, he says,"What about feminism? " To that I just think,"What a lovely excuse to be lazy and disrespectful." I am grateful to the great woman that have fought for all of us to have rights. But, open the *@$%*!^ door for me!
It has become quite a running joke around here. He actually stopped opening all doors for a while, after those comments were made. I felt as if he were trying to prove a point. That's fine. You stand there looking like an idiot because another man is holding the door open for me while we walk into a building. Well, the kids have gotten involved. Sooo, there have been a few times where (I think on accident) he opens a door for us, and the kids start hooting."WHOA! He OPENED THE DOOR!" Funny!
He is getting better. Slowly but surely.
The two of us were going somewhere the other day, I walked out of the house, and he was standing on the passenger side of the car with the door open. I was so confused instantly and asked him if he wanted me to drive. He was standing there waiting for me to get in! I found this hilarious! Here he was actually trying to do a good thing, and I didn't even recognize it.
It made me feel as if there was hope for the world after all!










